Grief quotes- plus rilke poem

Its really ok to let grief just be there, hiding, behind the veil of the moments 
in time that need to just be...

Sometimes I think it quortorized the edges of griefs stain and contains it, 
...there, over there is grief, ill come visit.....

Does it visit you? Does it come out at night ? Does it call into your thoughts 
and say, here I am ?


And I think to  share rilke--

"You, darkness from which I come, I love you more than the flame that bounds the 
world.
Shining
In a single ring
Beyond which no creature knows of it.

But the darkness seizes everything
Folds and flames
How  it grasps them
People and powers....
And it Is possible that a great strength stirs in my neighborhood

- with the loss and rebirth...

-k