on grief coaching

I get the vision of a sive, a strainer, one is pouring their pain into and  it 
comes back to them...

if one could catch that water, and hold it in comfort, long enough for another 
be feel lightened by the release and be able to find a fresh pool to pour 
out....only it would be poured into the bowl and therefore part of the pain 
being held.....

So this is teaching and this is listening together.......