wisdom jesus

And like cynthia in her book wisdom jesus, she  writes about the parable of the women who couldn't share their 
own with the other woman who didn't prepare.....

she writes the reason the five wise bridesmaids who have oil can't give to the 
five who don't is that the oil symbolizes something that has to be individually 
created in you through ur own conscious striving. Nobody can give it to you, 
nobody can take it away.....

The oil stands for the quality of your transformed consciousness and its 
impossible  to be come conscious unconsciously, or thru donation from someone 
else....hence they were the WISE bridgemaids who acquired the "oil" of nondual 
consciousness and they can't share it with their sisters ever if they wanted 
to..